I am in Tulare, CA. attending the a conference of the Western District of my church organization. This is primarily a meeting of ministers that convenes each Spring, and where the major business for this group is addressed. The services are being held in the beautiful facilities of Abundant Life.
There are several hundred people here and I know a great number of them, but sometimes I forget people’s names. Oh, not my close friends or people I have known a long time, but because Jerry has preached in many churches in California and elsewhere, and because I have done a fair amount of speaking throughout the district, sometimes it is obvious that people know me and accurately call my name, even as I stand with blinking blank brain. It’s embarrassing, and certainly is not a good trait.
While reading a bit this morning, I came across this fine article by Carolina Diaz-Bordon on memory improvement. You may want to read it, especially if like me, you occasionally “drop names.” I’d like to hear from you. Do you have trouble remembering people’s names, and more especially do you have tricks that work to help you remember names? I recall reading once that immediately after being introduced to a person, it is a helpful thing to repeat their names in the ensuing conversation. I do find that helpful. Yet…too often, I find myself searching frantically to recall the name of the smiling person who stands before me, easily speaking my name. Hate it!
Chances are, throughout your lifetime you have experienced your fare share of memory blunders. You’re not alone. Everybody forgets things from time to time. While nobody is completely immune to absent-mindedness, some tend to catch it much more than others. Temporary mental blocks may be common, but they can be extremely frustrating. More than likely, it has never been a good time to misplace your keys, draw a blank on a test, forget someone’s name or blow off a friends birthday. Being able to retain and retrieve information helps to strengthen all realms of your life both personally and professionally. The benefits of good memory are endless.
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9:10 Edit As I walked over to the hotel breakfast an hour or so ago, I chanced to meet my long time friend Sandy Elms, and as we talked she told me of a book she is reading and spoke of some tips she had learned there about avoiding Alzheimers. We giggled together as I told her of this posting, then she proceeded to tell me of a session she recently attended at the Senior Citizens place near her home. She sat beside a 78 year old woman, who told Sandy that previously she had signed up for a memory class.
“Guess what?” the 78 year old said to my friend, Sandy. “I forgot to go!”