Some time ago, I wrote briefly of a child who attended one of the churches Jerry pastored, whom we found later to have been sexually abused by her father while the family was attending our church. We knew the family was unstable, but it never occurred to us that such could be happening.
Many years later, the abused, grown daughter and I met again, and she told me the story. I was stunned. The daughter finally cut all ties with her parents, and is now married and has children of her own. She holds no animosity toward either Jerry or me and faults us not at all.
But sometimes when I think of that young girl I grieve and feel a clanking heaviness. That experience may be one of the reasons the Fritzl story has gripped me so intensely, and that I have followed it rather closely and have written about it more than once.
Yesterday, on The Sable Verity I learned of a documentary that has been prepared by the Central European News Agency. After watching this, I knew I wanted to post it on my site. The documentary is excellent, and will answer many questions you may have. One of the gentlemen reports that some of the news that has been released is in error, including that of the children’s scanty language and the “monkey-like” walk of Felix.
While not becoming paranoid, we must ever be vigilant regarding human need. Acutely, must we be aware of the real possibility that abuse may occur within our realm of influence, and we must be willing to take responsible action.
Be prepared to be sickened and unsettled as you watch these.
Part 1
Part 2
Part 3
Part 4
Part 5
19 responses so far ↓
Martha // June 2, 2008 at 7:20 am
This story has haunted me since it first hit the news. It is like an awful fairy tale – a very twisted beauty and the beast. Unbelievable. It amazes me that they are having to test Fritlz for insanity. There should be a new word for insanity with his name in it.
And Elisabeth. That she hasn’t lost her mind is incredible. She is a heroine. There ought to be a city named for her. She is an amazing, strong human being. SHE IS A SAINT. The irony of her father’s abusive power over her is that he is a pathetic weakling by comparison with Elizabeth. She is the powerful one. I pray for her and her family daily. And I pray that the media BACK OFF and stop recreating the invasive abuse.
I too am impressed with Elisabeth’s strength. She is truly an amazing woman.
I suppose I am ambivalent about press coverage. While I certainly think the press can be intrusive–and to an alarming degree often are–I appreciate the wide coverage of news from around the world. I admit to being both horrified and yet strangely fascinated by seeing this gruesome dungeon.
There must be a limit, though. I agree.
dean // June 2, 2008 at 1:24 pm
Tragic event. Can’t imagine the horror ….of being held captive…. or the fear of being brought upstairs into the light for the first time….Tragic event. Gods mercies are needed for all the members of that family.
Unimaginable horror. I trust the peace and love of God washes them.
Karla Holley // June 2, 2008 at 2:58 pm
He is an evil, EVIL man!! I hope they send him to trial – but don’t know that there is any punishment for such a crime as this.
It is the most vile thing I ever heard.
Jana Allard // June 2, 2008 at 4:14 pm
Years of torment to his daughter and a sudden crash to his wife. I can’t even begin to imagine the pain the victims and his wife are feeling. Evil almost seems too nice a word for the man.
You’re right. Words fail to describe such a person.
My husband finds it hard to believe the wife didn’t know anything about this. Her DNA has not been found in the dungeon, and she denies any involvement. Investigators seems to believe her.
I think if my husband were doing something like this, I would be able to know it. But evidently Josef Fritzl was such a stern, controlling man that his wife probably lived in fear of him, and merely accepted his explanation for everything.
Strange, though.
Martha // June 2, 2008 at 4:42 pm
Is he evil or possessed? I think that Josef Fritzl is PROFOUNDLY, DANGEROUSLY, mentally ill, and that he is also a sex addict. I’d bet my life, too, that he has a sexual abuse history. I’ve read that he was phsically abused by his mother. He is a master of manipulation, control, and compartmentalizing his life – which is what addicts if all kinds do. Many addicts speak of feeling like they are 2 people. This a true Jekyl and Hyde story.
But yes, what makes some individuals act out to this “off the charts” degree? There are other people with similar life histories that have not become perpetrators. There must be NO OPENINGS for God’s light to penetrate his spirit. How does one become so closed off?? Jesus said (and I’m paraphrasing – my bible history is sketchy at best) Forgive them, for they know not what they do…
These are the acts of someone ruled by compulsive behavior – someone completely disconnected from God or Spirit. Call it evil, call it sin, call it possesion by the devil. All these words could describe his behavior. I pray that Fritzl sees the light. What worse torture and torment could there be for that man but to fully understand, acknowledge and feel the pain that he has caused his family?? Like the slave trader who wrote Amazing Grace, is it possible that Fritzl could also be cured of his “blindness”?
Jana Allard // June 2, 2008 at 5:04 pm
Chances are the wife was a victim of his sexual tirades and lived in fear of his outburst. Did you notice in the videos where he was on the beach/vacation and his wife was never in the pictures? She may have smiled on the few occasions they were in public together, but her smile probably hid the pain of her own private life with him.
In response to Martha, I am “oh, me of little faith” when it comes to this wicked man being cured.
Darla H. // June 2, 2008 at 9:30 pm
Sis. Buxton: I have never commented on your blog before but have been a reader for quite some time. I want to say first of all that I absolutely love you appreciate your wise words. You often leave me thinking about issues in ways I never have before.
Regarding this issue, I do suspect Mrs. Fritzl really didn’t know about her daughter. Like you, I can’t see myself ever being duped in such a way, however, we live in a different world and a different culture. My grandmother is from Germany, and as much as my grandmother loves her children, I really believe she would have been duped had something like this happened to her. She comes from a culture and era where you did not speak of your problems; you held your head high and did the best you could. As a result, there was a lot of “burying your head in the sand” so-to-speak because that was the only way she knew to deal with hurts. Mrs. Fritzl has obviously been brow-beaten all her life, probably thought very little of herself and became a very quiet, “mousy” woman who has no confidence at all in her own opinions.
Thank you again for provoking my thoughts. God bless you.
Paula // June 4, 2008 at 4:57 pm
thank you SOOO MUCH for the updated information. I am trying to follow this story, and your videos have certainly cleared alot of things up. Please keep us updated!!! News on this story has seemed to “stop”. Wonder why?>
You’re welcome. It’s a sad, but riveting story.
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Linda Grammatico // June 11, 2008 at 11:48 am
I came across your article and video’s by accident. Thank you for a more thorough look at this most tragic situation. Elisabeth is truly an amazing young woman to have survived this horrible ordeal, not only keeping her own mind intact, but schooling her children which through her, allowed them to survive as well. May their lives move forward without fear, without hate, without guilt, but with much love, support, and God’s blessings.
Linda Grammatico
Michigan, USA
Lindy Draper // June 12, 2008 at 5:20 am
I cannot comprehend such an inhumane, bizarre story. Not only of a disgusting form of broken trust but of an increadible tale of survival.
One can’t imagine living imprisoned and tormented for so long, and having to endure the most hiddeous forms of abuse, yet stay strong enough to raise a family and remain mentally intact.
Thankyou for your article and showing us Elizabeth’s courage, who kept her will to survive and instincts to nurture.
May Elizabeth and her family now find comfort in all most if us take for granted, none the least our freedom but also life’s most precious gifts, the sun, wind, rain and of course fresh air! GOD BLESS THEM ALL -As they stand they are no longer silent!!!
Sable // July 3, 2008 at 8:02 pm
I aslo keep an up-to-date thread on this issue, on the Sable Verity. It is at:
http://sableverity.wordpress.com/2008/07/03/up-to-date-coverage-on-austrias-elisabeth-fritzl-and-family/
Sable // July 3, 2008 at 8:02 pm
I also want to share with your readers…well, everyone in the country, really, the story of Sister Esmin Green. More information about her, and her tragic death, can be found at:
http://sableverity.wordpress.com/2008/07/03/sister-esmin-green-the-woman-who-died-on-the-hospital-floor/
I know that, as a blogger and host of a blog, I can be senstive to folks leaving comments which include links, but I think that these human stories are ones we need to know about, so that we can be more aware of the world and those who live in it.
Peace and Blessings,
Sable Verity
Shirley // July 6, 2008 at 5:41 am
Hello, Sable–welcome to this site.
I appreciate your work and your caring about people. I will be following the Esmin Green account. Thanks for the link.
Blessings–
shirley
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Michel Bilodeau // October 6, 2008 at 2:58 am
Rot in Hell Josef Fritzl, you Animal.
Michel Bilodeau // October 6, 2008 at 3:03 am
God Bless You Elizabeth and your Beautiful Children.
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